Love & Hip Hop Hollywood - Debut

I need Ray J to quit acting like he's this big mogul. Dude you do OK and I'm always trying to encourage and uplift but you are slipping.  Your Ex-porn-star girlfriend who we all know has so surpassed you and yet you continue to make fun of her.  Take some notes.

This is another show that I'll be watching for the latest in clothes and accessories, but the story is the same.  Chicks who can't move on and want to cry and be dramatic about it.  The baby mamas trying to claim some sort of position and the industry guys who we haven't heard a peep out of in years claiming to have big projects coming up.  Let face it, the show will give them more exposure but they are eventually going to have to come with the goods.  

QUESTION:  IS ANYONE GETTING AS BORED AS I AM WITH THE SAME STORY LINE AND DRAMA OF THE LOVE & HIP HOP BRAND?

Floyd Mayweather - Modern Day Harem or Prostitutes on the Payroll

If you've seen HBO's "All Access" then you are already familiar with Floyd Mayweather and his harem or his promotions team, or I mean his stable of girlfriends or whatever he wants it to be depending on the day of the week.  I'm not sure what this group of women actually represent.  He claimed at one time that they all had different jobs and responsibilities relative to his promotions team.  However, over the years I really don't see why they are necessary.  He is one of the most famous and wealthiest athletes in the world.  Exactly what do they do for him that he hasn't already done for himself, BESIDES GET HIM OFF.  The latest installment of  HBO's "All Access" showcased the typical day in the life of Mayweather with so called staff doing what they do best. They drove around Las Vegas in some of the most expensive automobiles in the world, taking his staff shopping in the most trendy and posh boutiques while the bystanders took photos and followed them around.  The latest installment however was a little different in a shocking way.  Although Mayweather swears of drugs for himself he proudly showed his female "staff members" getting high and even showed them rolling joints at his home.

Does this guy think he's above the law or something?  Is marijuana legal in LasVegas and no one told me?

He then insisted on weighing his female staff members and insisted that they must keep their "thickness" to be qualified.  Again are we talking about here.  I would have more respect for the guy if he would just call the girls that I feel they are, PROSTITUTES ON THE PAYROLL.


QUESTION:  DOES FLOYD MAYWEATHER HAVE A MODERN DAY HAREM OF PROSTITUTES ON THE PAYROLL?

Side Chick Rules

OK, so I decided to picture the most famous fictional side chicks of the day. "Scandal" is a very exciting television show and one of the things that is a common theme that his(Fitz-the fictional President of the United States) side woman ,Olivia Pope continues to be dissatisfied with herself and her relationship with Fitzgerald. In their case the relationship has gone on for some time and she has to work with him and see his wife on a daily basis.  She is in need of love and attention but can never seem to get the fullness of this blooming flower from the man she is cheating with.  I wonder why.  The reason is simple.  

YOU ARE A SIDE CHICK

PLAY YOUR POSITION 

MANAGE YOUR EMOTIONS

MAKE YOUR DEMANDS(FOR STUFF ONLY,HIS TIME AND AFFECTION ARE BEING RATIONED TO YOU)

Of course all of the married woman and ladies who are in dedicated relationships are going to hate me for doing this but this is the way it is in SOME cases.  

Side Chick Rules:  

Understand that you are not a main priority - He will be able to see you when it's convenient for him, not you.  As soon as you start making demands on his time, your time will be up very soon.  

Demand SOMETHING for your time and trouble(money,cars,real estate,shopping trips,etc.) - This will make you feel more valued.  His heart and soul belong to someone else, so be it.  

Discretion is the key - You are there on a temporary basis so be respectful of his permanent situation(wife,kids, etc.) Don't go to social media and embarrass the guy with the affair.  No matter what he tell you his wife don't deserve that and his children(if he has any) don't deserve it either. After all, you were both playing on the cheaters field so you are just as dirty as he is.  You are not a victim.  

No pressure - If the guy wanted to leave his wife and family, then he will just do it.  If he doesn't its because he does not want to and something more is keeping him there.

FLIP THE SCRIPT

Some men are actually looking for that woman to be in a committed  relationship with and will attempt to make the side chick a wife.  Don't get happy ladies this does not happen very often, so don't hold your breath. Some woman go after married men for the simple reason that they don't want those men around all of the time and just want the goodies and the stuff that they get for being discreet.  All I have to say is that relationships change over time and for those that choose to get involved in someone else's relationship in order to create one for themselves may not get out of it what they think.  then again their are plenty of example in the entertainment industry that prove otherwise.   NEVER SAY NEVER!

Alicia Keys and Swizz Beats 

Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt

QUESTION: ARE THERE RULES TO BEING A SIDE CHICK OR IS THE WHOLE THING RIDICULOUS?

The Bachelors - Juan and Nikki

Is Juan Pablo the worst Bachelor for not saying he loved Nikki  on the finale of "The Bachelor"?

OR 

Is this guy being treated unfairly for telling his truth about his feelings for Nikki?

OK, now I'm a little bit more of a realist.  I understand that two very good looking people can come together on a reality TV show for love because we've seen this before.  This guy (Juan) has a lot going for him and I feel he is a pretty honest guy, mainly honest with himself first.  The focus of "The Bachelor" is that these young woman who are selected get the opportunity to jockey for the attention of this one guy for the ultimate love connection. But what happens when an instant love connection is not made by both parties?  It seems that Nikki was feeling more in love with Juan at the finale and wanted to hear those three words but did not.  This sent the media and the social media outlets ablaze with negative banter towards Juan.  It was as if he led her on just because he felt like he had not arrived at the place of true love with her.  People fall in love at different times and I think that we may be jumping the gun if we believe that we all get there at the same time or that we should pretend that we are there in order to save another persons feeling.  


Fast forward:  They are not on the reality TV show "Couples Therapy" 

QUESTION: IS IT BEST TO TELL SOMEONE THAT YOU BELIEVE YOU CAN LOVE LATER THAT YOU LOVE THEM NOW JUST TO MAKE THAT PERSON HAPPY AND KEEP THE PEACE? 

Can a Baby Save a Crumbling Marriage?

I want to believe that Beyonce' and Jay-Z are the perfect couple but let's face it, there is really no such couple.  She is one of the most talented, beautiful, seemingly nice and down to earth entertainers that we have seen in a long time.  She has been referred to as the total package.  Jay-Z has access to some of the most beautiful woman in the world and is of course talented and wealthy in his own right.  But is he like most men - creeping on the side when no one is looking.  Beyonce' has had to deal with infidelity before with her father and according to many media outlets she is dealing with Jay-Z's cheating.  They as a couple have denied that there is any issues in their marriage.  I believe that they are a happy and well connected couple.  No one's happy with someone everyday.  There's not a couple on earth that can say that they are in love everyday.  I am ecstatic that the couple will be expecting their second child together. But why can't the media leave them alone to live? Are we a little jealous of this seemingly perfect couple who live an incredible life together?  Or is the baby a last ditch effort to save their marriage?  

QUESTION:  CAN A BABY SAVE A CRUMBLING MARRIAGE? 

Social Media Cheating

FACEBOOK, INSTAGRAM,TWITTER, LINKEDIN and the like are all not only great ways to stay connected but are becoming an increasing platform for infidelity for some couples.  It starts off as an innocent friend or group invitation but can easily become a way to send private emails and messages from someone who may be interested in you for dating, romance or sexual purposes.  Let's face it, the internet is a playground for connecting to people who we otherwise would never meet.  Pictures are posted and smiles are reflected in these photos and can easily make it seem as though all of these people are smiling at us.  Many take the plunge and cheat on their significant other through social media because so many people are quickly accessible and if done with precision, no one else will  know.  

QUESTION: IS IT ACCEPTABLE TO CONTACT PEOPLE REPEATEDLY THROUGH SOCIAL MEDIA AND HIDE IT FROM YOUR SIGNIFICANT OTHER?

Ray Rice NFL Contact Terminated for Domestic Abuse Incident

Should the NFL Mind Their Business or Are They Justified?

It's been the talk of sports news and national news today.  Ray Rice will have to endure being fired by the Ravens football club and the NFL has made it seemly impossible that he be able to be picked up by another team.  The unfortunate incident has gone viral and it's pretty gruesome.  His wife however is just as sick as her abusive husband.  She married the guy a month after the incident which makes me further believe that this has happened before and that they have had an abusive and volatile relationship for a while now.  She wanted this guy at all costs and she got him and everything that comes with it.  They both need counseling and hopefully will not bring anymore children into this world until they figure out their issues.  I do not have ANY sympathy for this woman however.  The bottom line is if you stay in it, then it must be something about getting knocked out cold that you like.  It's that simple. 

QUESTION:  IS IT HARDER TO LEAVE A RELATIONSHIP WITH A PERSON WHO IS RICH AND FAMOUS, BUT HAD SOME ANGER AND VIOLENT TENDENCIES? 

FYI Network - "Married at First Sight"

Healthy Trend or Have We All Completely Lost Our Mind

The FYI Network has rolled out a really interesting show concept.  Getting married vat first sight to a total stranger which includes a wedding ceremony complete with a family and friend filled reception and honeymoon.  Let's face it we are living in a world where we have instant access to everything and now love and marriage have a place on this super highway.  I originally thought that this show idea was completely nuts.  I mean wow, married and living with a complete stranger.  However, as I continue to watch the episodes what I'm finding is that the people that signed up for this social experiment are pretty serious about wanting a committed relationship that obviously includes marriage and family.  It's the getting to know one another that's the kicker.  After all chemistry cannot be manufactured however I'm finding that the couples seem to be extremely invested.  They still have there insecurities and are working on communication.  At least they are willing to stick it out and really work on being in a committed relationship.  

IS THIS A HEALTHY TREND OR IS THIS A DISASTER THAT WILL HAVE EPIC CONSEQUENCES IF IT CATCHES ON?

"I'm Sorry Miss Jackson, Are You for Real"

Is Miss Jackson is Crying Wolf or is She Broke and In Need of Money?

                                                    WHAT KIND OF LAWSUIT IS THIS????


Bye Felicia!!  Girl please stop while you are ahead.  I mean really.  You were living the life and now you are not. The Nelly thing doesn't seem to be working out for you so now you are having flashbacks to when Floyd Mayweather Jr. the worlds most successful and richest athlete supposedly pulled a gun on you and threatened you.  OK, it could have happened, but damn you waited an awfully long time to complain about it. I know your lawyer is happy to get another high profile case but this sounds phony that you are soooo devastated now. I would be more interested in this if thereports surfaced during their relationship.  I mean that's how you get someones attention.  she's going to have a hard time convening a judge that she should get any compensation for any emotional distress.  All Floyd's lawyers have to do is produce video and footage of her with him, in his homes, around his kids, spending money, partying, wearing his engagement ring and singing his praises after the alleged incident happened.  CASE CLOSED.

ONE QUESTION?  WHERE ARE ALL OF THE RINGS AND JEWELRY NOW?  ONE GUESS, ALL CONFISCATED WHEN HE CLEANED OUT HER FAMOUS CLOSET AND POSTED IT ON TWITTER

So let me get this straight, she was a proud member of TMT or THE MONEY TEAM and the fiance of one of the most wealthy athletes in history and now she's not.  had grown accustomed to flying private jets, driving and being whipped around in some of the finest and most exotic automobiles in the world, shopping at the best boutiques and layering in custom designs and of course mingling with celebrities and the like on a daily basis.  All of this is fine and dandy until it comes to a screeching halt.  This relationship seemed so perfect until it wasn't.  

NOW THIS IS WHAT IT'S LIKE TO RUN INTO YOUR EX OUT AND ABOUT WITH THE NEXT CHICK

Just a thought.  Perhaps the next millionaire athlete that you meet will meet a smarter woman.  We need to take advantage of the fame and fortune ladies and think about the future.  Instead of just being the pretty future "Misses to be" she should have incorporated herself into the business side of his life and had more control of who was in and who was out.  She should have given all of those pretty marketing and promotion girls the once over and let them know who's boss.  instead it seemed that they ruled and ran her emotions until they ran her out of there.


QUESTION:  SHOULD MISS JACKSON BURY THE HATCHET WITH FLOYD OR GO FOR BROKE AND TRY AND GET A SETTLEMENT?

Just Another "Future" Baby Mama

Ciara and Future 

 Back Together or a Single Mother's Desperate Attempt to Have a Family

Ok, so Future cheated on Ciara while she was pregnant.  News flash:  most men cheat on their significant others while they are pregnant.  Why?  Because they cannot have sex with them the way they are accustomed to for fear of harming the baby.   This trend has been going on since the beginning of time so ladies sorry for the wake up call, but DAMN IT, WAKE UP!  That's not something that I condone but the truth of the matter is that she could have waited to get pregnant in the first place. What was the rush anyway.  This is not the 50's where you didn't have choices in birth control methods.  There are so many ways to prevent a pregnancy these days that it's unreal.  This guy (Future) already has children by other women who probably thought they were going to have the instant family but it didn't turn out that way now did it.  Ciara is  no exception. All I can say to Ciara is good luck with a guy that not only cheated, but seemingly left you to give birth alone and take care of that baby by yourself for the first several months.  This is not an example of a loving relationship, but more infatuation, the need to ride Ciara's coat tail for more publicity and fame and a woman who sees all of her celebrity friends getting married and having children.  Ladies, You canot force this and by bringing children into the picture without a solid family and a commtted man, then you run the risk.  Oh well Ciara, you wanted it so you got it. 

WELCOME TO BEING JUST ANOTHER "FUTURE" BABY MAMA - LITERALLY!!

QUESTION:  IS CIARA DOING THE RIGHT THING BY BEING IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH FUTURE OR SHOULD SHE LOOK FOR A NEW FUTURE WITH SOMEONE ELSE?