Ciara and Future
Back Together or a Single Mother's Desperate Attempt to Have a Family
Ok, so Future cheated on Ciara while she was pregnant. News flash: most men cheat on their significant others while they are pregnant. Why? Because they cannot have sex with them the way they are accustomed to for fear of harming the baby. This trend has been going on since the beginning of time so ladies sorry for the wake up call, but DAMN IT, WAKE UP! That's not something that I condone but the truth of the matter is that she could have waited to get pregnant in the first place. What was the rush anyway. This is not the 50's where you didn't have choices in birth control methods. There are so many ways to prevent a pregnancy these days that it's unreal. This guy (Future) already has children by other women who probably thought they were going to have the instant family but it didn't turn out that way now did it. Ciara is no exception. All I can say to Ciara is good luck with a guy that not only cheated, but seemingly left you to give birth alone and take care of that baby by yourself for the first several months. This is not an example of a loving relationship, but more infatuation, the need to ride Ciara's coat tail for more publicity and fame and a woman who sees all of her celebrity friends getting married and having children. Ladies, You canot force this and by bringing children into the picture without a solid family and a commtted man, then you run the risk. Oh well Ciara, you wanted it so you got it.
WELCOME TO BEING JUST ANOTHER "FUTURE" BABY MAMA - LITERALLY!!
QUESTION: IS CIARA DOING THE RIGHT THING BY BEING IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH FUTURE OR SHOULD SHE LOOK FOR A NEW FUTURE WITH SOMEONE ELSE?
This situation lets you know that money can't buy good self-esteem. Something inside a woman has to be broken to look at a man that has a number of children by different woman (of which he married none), and think I can fix him. Our situation will be different. Obviously, Ciara is not fully aware of who she is, of her worth, or of the gifts that are present within her, because if she was she never allow a man to treat her in such a manner. She would have protected her heart and body way more fiercely. To allow herself to be cheated on repeatedly, even for the sake of being a family due to the child is unhealthy. Is this the behavior she really wants her child to grow up believing is ok? I think Ciara can definitely do better. I'm sure there's someone out there that would treat her and her child with the respect that they are due. The main issue is, she needs to know that she deserves better, and hopefully with time she will figure that out.
ReplyDeleteCiara, I think you are a lovely girl, however, you can't change him. He did it to the others and now he is doing it to you. You guys are not compatible. Get out now before you grow to hate him. Your pictures tell me that you are forcing the issue. He doesn't love himself so how will he be able to love you or your child. You have the idea of a family. There is another man and it aint this guy. He is a loser. And you have lost your mind if you think you are the one and only. Get out before you end up hold the lonely bag.
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